Developing Belief Systems

September 1, 2014 by Wall Street Playboys | The first tenet that applies to both men and women is that you cannot make a person do anything.

After taking a quick vacation we’re back to posting. The two most vouched for items were a fitness routine and belief systems. Today, we’ll start with the latter.

Girls:

Overview: The first tenet that applies to both men and women is that you cannot make a person do anything. You can only sell them on doing something. In addition, the older a person gets the more set in their ways they become.

Given that backdrop, the ideal girl for you is going to be different from the ideal girl for person B, C and D. You look at the mosaic of the girl and bucket her as you wish. Maybe she’s relationship material, maybe she’s only good for a one night stand and maybe she’s simply someone who is going to dislike you upon hello. Nothing can be done about this.

Once you recognize that you can do nothing to change the initial woman you’re meeting, your fears of rejection will go away. As an example… If you’re well dressed and well groomed when you approach a woman and her first reaction is to tell you “Go away you’re ugly!”… Is that really a person you want to meet in the first place? The answer of course is no. You should have a good laugh because someone is going to pick her up and become disappointed in his choice later on. You won that war.

No Woman Is Perfect: Once you stop looking for a perfect woman you’re going to broaden the set of women you approach. Dramatically. If you like 80% of her you’re in great shape, if you like 90% of her you’re in better shape and if you like 50% of her then you’re looking at a one-night stand at maximum.

American Women: They are a function of the environment we live in. The USA is incredibly prosperous and no one is in dire need of food or shelter (relative to other countries) so they have no reason to *need* a man. Simply accept this as part of the territory. You cannot change how American culture operates. You’re better off improving yourself and ignoring all the doom and gloom about the USA. If it gets bad enough go ahead and ex-patriate.

Cheating: If you decide on the relationship route, do not spend a split second worrying about your girlfriend cheating on you. It is a waste of your valuable time. Simply assume she is not (unless your social cues catch on).